The man who lives in contact with what he believes to be a living Church is a man always expecting to meet Plato and Shakespeare to-morrow at breakfast. He is always expecting to see some truth that he has never seen before. There is one only other parallel to this position; and that is the parallel of the life in which we all began. When your father told you, walking about the garden, that bees stung or that roses smelt sweet, you did not talk of taking the best out of his philosophy. When the bees stung you, you did not call it an entertaining coincidence. When the rose smelt sweet you did not say “My father is a rude, barbaric symbol, enshrining (perhaps unconsciously) the deep delicate truths that flowers smell.” No: you believed your father, because you had found him to be a living fountain of facts, a thing that really knew more than you; a thing that would tell you truth to-morrow, as well as to-day. And if this was true of your father, it was even truer of your mother; at least it was true of mine, to whom this book is dedicated. Now, when society is in a rather futile fuss about the subjection of women, will no one say how much every man owes to the tyranny and privilege of women, to the fact that they alone rule education until education becomes futile: for a boy is only sent to be taught at school when it is too late to teach him anything. The real thing has been done already, and thank God it is nearly always done by women. Every man is womanised, merely by being born.
—Chesterton, Orthodoxy
Tree of Life is my first Terrence Malick film. I tried to watch The New World once, on a small TV screen, but it wasn’t going to happen. So I repaired to the theater to get the widescreen experience of his newest work.
Intellectually, I want to defend Malick’s audacity in showing at length the surface of the sun, asteroid collisions, dinosaur interactions, undersea life, and the processes of cells and arteries. He scales up and scales down toward the beginning of the movie before he finds his temporal and biological focus, the growth and adolescence of young Jack in a 1950s Texas suburb, caught between his religious, sainted, beautiful mother, who counsels him to follow the unselfish path of grace rather than the capricious way of nature, and his tough, resentful, overwhelming father, who teaches him, sometimes through violence, how to transcend himself neither by nature nor by grace, but by will.
The film is largely saved from schematism by Brad Pitt’s performance as the father. Pitt never lets the man be just a bully or tyrant, though he is that, because he also projects his charisma, his ambition, his thwartedness, his tenderness. You see that the truly terrible thing about having him for a father or husband would be your genuine desire to meet his standard, to please him, even to protect him. One reviewer speaks in our pallidly hysterical social-worker ethical parlance about the father’s “domestic abuse,” but all we see him do is lock one kid in a closet and hit another in the mouth; in the only scene where he lays hands on his wife, she hits him first and he restrains her till she agrees to stop. If anything, I’d imagine the film plays down the era’s lower threshold for physical violence. No, the real problem the father poses to his sons is the partial truth of life’s ruthlessness that he incarnates. Malick is no sentimentalist and no moralist: the dinosaurs he shows us also tested each other through violence, and the asteroid that wiped them out wasn’t on the path of grace. Malick and Pitt are able, in short, to inhabit, albeit critically, the father’s position.
The role of the mother is weaker. In fact, what struck me about the film’s historical setting was how much of a difference the feminist and sexual revolution has made in people’s actual lives. I grew up in a much more co-ed world than the one Malick depicts. When we went on childish treks in the woods, there were always boys and girls both, and the kinds of advice your parents gave you, and what forms of experience they represented, were not neatly divided according to their gender, as it was, or was supposed to be, which can amount to the same thing, in the 195os middle-class domestic retrenchment. Given the stricter gender binary of the ’50s, given that your mother represented one kind of world and your father another that would displace the first, the overtness of the film’s Oedipal themes rings true. But the idealization of the mother seems to represent Malick’s perspective as well as Jack’s.
I’m not just making a feminist point here. Quite the opposite really, since modern vernacular feminism continues, probably inevitably, to trade in many ways on the nineteenth-century feminist idea that women are somehow special or ideal or more moral or more fragile than men–not just different, which may be true to an extent, but better. (It’s hard to remember now, but domestic ideology was an early form of feminist critique, even though the feminists’ second wave successfully if erroneously redefined it as a creation of “patriarchy.”) If Malick did grow up in world more segregated by gender, then he has less access to the ways in which women are as complex as men. For instance, just as the father both feels a resentment at his children for leading him away from the life he wanted and a genuine grandeur in his sense of ambition for them, just as his brutality is mixed in charismatic ways with his aestheticism, so I would imagine that a real woman like the mother would also combine lofty and ignoble traits. Her religiosity, for instance, would sometimes manifest itself as a passive-aggressive, moralizing way to control these unruly men. Some complexity does get through. One of the father’s judgments against the mother is that she “turns the boys against” him. We never see her do this consciously–in words, for instance. But we do see her flirtatious aliveness when the boys are teasing her. They gratify her with a playful form of innocently fleshly attention that she seems no longer to get from her husband. But in this, she follows, and represents, the path of nature rather than of grace.
Which returns us to the question of the film’s insistence on the cosmic perspective and the geological clock. Again, I want to admire Malick’s daring, but it feels forced. Ponderous. Lacking a sense of the ridiculous (more about that momentarily). It’s as if a novel’s narrator paused in telling the story to remind the reader that this is Serious Stuff, about God, Life, Love, Sex, Death, etc. Which novelists sometimes did and do, but when they do, we call it not art-house or avant-garde but middlebrow and kitsch.
This complaint may be churlishness or fastidiousness on my part. More importantly, does the cosmic perspective allow for grace? Does cinema allow for grace? It strikes me that perhaps grace is invisible, un-representable. It certainly isn’t much evoked by Malick’s ambiguous ending, where everybody seems to go to heaven, or something. Maybe grace in the film is in the making of it. When we see grown-up Jack as an architect oppressed by the artificiality of the city, we follow him as he makes plans and deals with money-men, all the while complaining about modern greed and shallowness. In short, he may be an architect in the film, but allegorically he’s stands for the filmmaker. And the filmmaker’s version of grace is to tell the tale, without blame, without complaint, without judgment, without compromise, but only with attention.
The interludes in space or under the ocean might be lapses in attention. They are complicit in the film’s greatest absence, which is, as I said, any sense of the ridiculous. A central scene sees young Jack enter a neighbor’s house and steal a dress of hers. It’s strongly implied that he masturbates into it, because he works hard to get rid of it. This scene is portrayed like the Fall of Man itself, which it is in some way meant to evoke. Come on, one wants to say, this is funny, this is Portnoy stuff, and what makes it ridiculous, and therefore aesthetically important, is its power to suggest that our desires are incommensurate with our aspirations. For Malick, though, this mismatch is a tragedy, not a comedy, and I assume he thinks it calls for a striving toward some transcendent awareness. Hence his hallowed portrayal of the mother, who is–these affective responses are unprovable, but worth noting–beautiful without exactly being sexy. Sex is the fall into nature: as the father would say, it decays the will; as the mother would say, it turns us away from grace.
Our particular brand of health-moralism these days calls on us to scorn this devaluing of sex as old-fashioned proto-fascist priggishness, unhygenic for boys and girls. At the end of the day, I suppose I respond that way too, at least by reflex. But it’s worth trying to inhabit Malick’s perspective since he’s insisting on spiritual questions that health-moralism (or “biopolitics,” as the academics say) not only can’t deal with, but likes to pretend aren’t really questions at all.
Personally, I was far more offended by Malick’s Koyaanisqatsi-lite anti-urbanism than by his anti-eroticism; that kind of city-hatred is always associated in my mind with totalitarian romantic nationalism–the Nazis or the Khmer Rouge–which I fear and despise. But even here, the film is more complex. What is a city but the apotheosis of human will–the father writ large, in all its mingled brutality and love? But to see this takes not will, not desire, but grace.
Chesterton’s living Church, like one’s living relationship with one’s family, is a source of endless instruction. Malick’s attempt is to make a movie–which is by its nature more like a city than a tree–that goes to the root of life. It’s backhanded praise to admire the ambition more than the result, but then we live in a time that worships results and defines ambition in strictly quantitative terms. I don’t believe in Chesterton’s Church and I can’t believe either in large parts of Malick’s Tree, but neither will I dismiss them as pernicious idealisms best consigned to the dustbin. The film, from the epigraph forward, evokes the problem of Job. If we think that problem has gone away just because we have science or progressive politics or some such, then we’re a lot stupider, and therefore more dangerous, than the idealists we scorn.